Requesting a reference letter is a crucial step in the graduate school application process, but it doesn’t have to be complicated.
In this section, we'll share a quick guide to walk you through the essential steps—from choosing the right referees to crafting a respectful request and ensuring a smooth submission. Whether you're asking for your first reference letter or just need a refresher, this guide provides you with practical tips to navigate the process with confidence and ease.
When requesting reference letters, clarity is key. You need to be specific about what you need—and when you need it—from each referee. Strong organization and time management skills are also essential to keep track of deadlines, manage your application materials, and respond promptly to referees.
Expand each section for more tips to help you navigate the process of requesting reference letters:
When selecting referees for your graduate school application, it's important to choose individuals who can speak to your academic capabilities, character, and potential for success in graduate study. Here's how to make the best choices:
Asking for a reference letter can feel intimidating, but approaching it professionally and thoughtfully will help ensure a positive response. You can personalize our Reference Letter Template for your needs or your can write your own too! Here’s a few things to keep in mind:
To help your referee write a strong letter, give them all the materials and context they need to support your goals.
Remember: Only send these materials once your referee has confirmed their willingness to write a letter for you—do not include any documents in your initial request email.
Here’s what to provide to your referees:
A well-crafted reference letter can significantly boost the success of your application. Here’s how to ensure your letter stands out:
For example, you might write something like:
"I thought it might be helpful to mention a recent assignment in your [Course Name] class that could showcase my [skills, work ethic, or specific strengths]. For example, my work on [briefly describe the assignment or project] might be a great way to highlight my [specific skills, such as research, problem-solving, or leadership]. If you have a different example in mind, I would love to discuss that with you too."
If you’re applying to several programs, managing multiple reference letter requests can be challenging. Here’s how to stay organized:
For example, you might write something like:
"Here are the key details for each program I’m applying to:
Please let me know if you need any additional information or clarification on the submission process for these programs. If any of the deadlines or requirements change, I will let you know immediately."
Once your recommendation letters are submitted, it's important to show gratitude and maintain communication. Here’s what to do next:
For example, you could thank your referee with the following note:
"I wanted to take a moment to sincerely thank you for writing a letter of recommendation on my behalf. I truly appreciate the time and effort you put into helping me with my graduate school applications. Your support means a great deal to me, and I’m grateful for your guidance throughout this process.
I’ll be sure to keep you updated on my application progress, and I’ll let you know the outcome as soon as I hear back. Thank you once again for your kindness and support."
Curious to see what you should (and shouldn't) do when asking for reference letters?
Watch the video below and pay attention to what each student did well (or missed) in their approach!